There is nothing to feel sorry for with him. He's a narcissist who is emotionally and physically abusive. He's finally reaping what he sowed. I will not help him. I refuse to be called names and attack me. This man hasn't contributed to one thing for his kids. None of his child want anything to do with him. We have seven children , four adults and three minors. He is a user and only speaks to me because I'm kind and have given him money in the past. Shit, I bailed his dumb ass out last year when he was arrested for felony assault. But I'm the enemy because I won't let him stay with me. No thanks. I'd never rid of him and I'm pretty sure my husband would not like it lol