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Short Of Cash, A Stranger Paid It Forward And Changed My Life

The kind man paid for groceries when I was down on luck. His generosity changed my life.

Chrissie Massey
4 min readMar 21, 2024

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Photo by Tara Clark on Unsplash

When my kids were small, I struggled with money often. After separating from my ex-husband, I had to work and provide childcare. He never helped me and had no guilt about leaving us high and dry.

Speaking of being high, that’s what led to this story. After giving my ex money for what I believed to be food and rehab fees (apparently, that’s not a thing), I was broke. Of course, the deadbeat dad spent my money on drugs and other women while I struggled to provide for our children. I thought I had enough to spend $75 on groceries for my kids.

My kids were 1, 3, 5,7,9, and 11. They meant the world to me. After being raised by my grandma, I swore they would be my focus when I had kids.

One day, I strolled into Dillons, a grocery store in Kansas, to buy a few things to get by for a few days. I counted everything exactly. I bought cereal, pasta, chicken, rice, potatoes, eggs, bread, and peanut butter. I might have thrown in soda and milk, but for the most part, it was the bare essentials.

The cashier rang everything up. My total was $72.87. I will never forget that total. I swiped my bank card, and it…

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Chrissie Massey
Chrissie Massey

Written by Chrissie Massey

Spent my adult life writing online for many publications — both online & print. Now, I’m finding my voice, and sharing it with the world. she/her

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