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Short Of Cash, A Stranger Paid It Forward And Changed My Life
As a single mother with four young children, a grocery store stranger helped me change my life, and I will forever feel gratitude.
When my kids were small, I struggled with money often. After separating from my ex-husband, I had to work and provide childcare. He never helped me and had no guilt about leaving us high and dry.
Speaking of being high, that’s what led to this story. After giving my ex money for what I believed to be food and rehab fees (apparently, that’s not a thing), I was broke. Of course, the deadbeat dad spent my money on drugs and other women while I struggled to provide for our children. I thought I had enough to spend $75 on groceries for my kids.
My kids were 5,7,9 and 11. They meant the world to me. After being raised by my grandma, I swore they would be my focus when I had kids.
One day, I strolled into Dillons, a grocery store in Kansas, to buy a few things to get by for a few days. I counted everything exactly. I bought cereal, pasta, chicken, rice, potatoes, eggs, bread, and peanut butter. I might have thrown in soda and milk, but it was the bare essentials for the most part.
