I am about 40 pounds overweight. I take good care of myself and am always losing weight. However, I've never had a problem getting any man I want, whether I was 110 pounds( in high school) or 140 in college or now at 180. Many manyen love a curvy girl.

The woman you described needs support and empathy, not being fat shamed.

Being a mom to teens and working fulltime is exhausting. Tha k God I'm married because I would have no time or patience for dating or being fat shamed. Just my two 🪙