I agree. It's hurtful. There was nothing wrong with me at the time. I was a straight A student. I played sports. I was the right weight, around 120lbs. He was the one with a problem.

And even if I was chubby or a bad student, no one deserves to be insulted by well meaning jerks. No thanks.

My grandma was the type that took no bullshit. She was tough and fiercely loyal.